Another question about uality?

So, when I hang out with women I just think of them as friends, until I kind of remind myself to envision myself being with them, and sometimes I wonder if I could ever enjoy that. Sometimes just the fact that I think these kind of thoughts at all makes me think I'm a . If you're a , was this how you found out, or did you actually have feelings for a certain girl. I'm sorry if I've completely lost you on this one, but I think in circles a lot about this subject. P.S. I do have feelings for men.